Tuesday, 8 April 2014

An Open Letter

An open letter to the Policeman, the High court and above all, the Supreme Court.

Dear Officers,

So, a four year old girl was raped in my city. The rapists were the very same people responsible for her safe travel to and from school. They were arrested. They will be interrogated by you, tried by you and punished too, sooner or maybe very much later. Meanwhile, the family of the little kid, friends, and citizens of Pune will protest and voice their anger about the incident by keeping black display pictures on the social network and march on the streets wearing black t shirts. And then a few days will pass. And everyone will put it behind their heads and move on.

I’ll tell you what else will happen. The parents of the little girl will never get her back. Each of you might have children. Can you imagine losing them? Also, the classmates of the girl will be told their friend is not going to come back. And all these girls will grow up, and know the truth then, and shudder when they look at themselves in the mirror. It could have been them. Worse, it can still be them. What else will happen? The other parents will wonder if they should ever let their child get on a bus again. Many won’t. Mothers will be more scared, fathers will have blood pressure issues. All their daughters will grow up in closed, safe atmospheres, never allowed to step out of their comfort zones, because one step out, and there are a million monsters waiting to punish them for being females. Wait a minute. Oh! This already happens to most girls, right?

So, all the freedom, education, globalization, liberalization, westernization, rationality failed to change one thing about us Indians: the way we look at girls and the way we think about them.

All this, you already know. You are all knowing and ‘taking all the necessary steps to bring this problem to an end.’ But please let me suggest to you one last thing that you can do.

Next time you successfully catch hold of a rapist. Don’t give him to the public to be beaten. He might get killed, but there are worse punishments than death. Don’t cut out his genitals. He will still have eyes and hands. Don’t rape him. You are not like him. Oh! Wait a minute again. You anyways don’t do all that. Anyways.

Just do one thing. Remove his clothes and walk him throughout the city. You will not be violent, you will not spill blood. But make this one man realize what it is to lose all his respect and self-esteem. What it is to have every person in the town, or even country talk about your sexuality, what it is to lose it, and what it is to live in a society which will never accept you again as before, will look down at you and even blame you for being victimized. Make him only realize what it is to be raped in India. Make him regret being human, make him regret being born.

Punishment is not the end to this. The change of the Pathetic Indian mind is.

She was four years old. She did not even know what it is to be a girl. How can you sleep? You are law keepers of this country. If you decide, you can help end this. Just help change the thinking. Or at least just do it because you are human. Come on.

-A girl.